
RHOBH alumna Erika Jayne had long been in the headlines for her latest romantic endeavor with beau, John McPhee. Her recent clash with fellow housewife Sutton and her viral Bravocon moment have also made her the newest buzz. Moreover, RHOBH Season 15 is expected to highlight certain aspects of her life, including her legal troubles and budding love life.
She had kept her new love life relatively private since filing for separation from her ex-husband, Tom. The 54-year-old was first linked to her current boyfriend back in July 2025. She met John through reality star Heidi Montag. Now that things are getting serious between her and John, she’s gradually sharing her future plans. Keep reading to learn about her plans.

After her ex-husband’s legal troubles landed her in deep trouble, Erika began keeping her life relatively private, especially her love life. Moreover, RHOBH’s Erika herself revealed that she intentionally kept her love life private. This is because she knows what media exposure can do to a couple and their relationship; she chose to do so.
Moreover, she said that she has been through too much already and wanted to keep something special just for herself. She recalled that John knew nothing about the reality TV world when they first met. Therefore, she felt that it made the relationship more natural and unplanned. Erika believed moving slowly is key to protecting what they are building. So, the Bravoleb still keeps her love life private, even after going public and hard-launching her man.
RHOBH diva Erika Jayne has been making headlines lately with her controversial actions. Fans might recall the Bravocon 2025 event and Season 15 premiere. The fandom has been at her heels for quite some time now. Regardless of all the drama, she seems to have found her calm and balance with her new beau, John Shrek McPhee.

On various occasions, the fandom has witnessed Jayne gushing about her new man and how fulfilling their relationship is. On iHeartRadio’s podcast, “Diamonds in the Rough,” she had previously gotten candid about her relationship. “Everything is nice, and everything is going great,” she shared. Moreover, she quipped, doing “all kinds of fun stuff” with her new beau, John.
However, the reality TV star additionally admitted that she was intimidated by the idea of marriage after her two failed marriages. Technically, she and her ex-husband, Tom Girardi, still haven’t divorced yet. “The person I’m currently dating is a very nice person,” she said. “I’m still married … I don’t know… I don’t want to give anybody these problems, does that make sense?” she added.
Needless to say, there aren’t any wedding bells ringing for the lovebirds anytime soon. However, they met a significant milestone in their relationship. John had met Erika’s son from her first marriage. “John is an intimidating guy, so yeah. It went beautifully,” Erika revealed. Needless to say, their relationship is achieving great heights. For more such latest reality TV updates, stay tuned to TV Season & Spoilers.