90 Day Fiance fame Kalani and Asuelu have been hitting rocky bottom for too long. Kalani thought getting a new home could change their relationship problems. But after having a heart-to-heart conversation with Kolini, Kalini realized that she is not having a romantic relationship with Asuelu. The couple doesn’t even sleep in the same room. Kalani also thought talking with Asuelu could help and change the situation. However, the same didn’t happen. Instead, the conversation made the situation even worse than expected. Let us look into the details below.
90 Day Fiance: Kalani Claims To Become Asuelu’s Mom And Not His Wife
Kalani, 32, and Asuelu, 25, have not been in a very good place for a long time. Kalani even thought of divorce at their bad time. However, she chose to try once more and give another chance to their marriage. But, how many chances will Kalani give to Asuelu? After having a long talk with her sister, Kalani went to Asuelu to discuss their problems. She claimed, “I feel like I’ve been in the role of your mom for so long.”
Kalani has been so busy teaching things to Asuelu that they almost forgot their romantic side of the marriage. The couple doesn’t even sleep in the same room anymore. Kalani also claims to not have “super loving feelings” in their marriage. She also explained to Asuelu that they need to work in the sex department. Moreover, Asuelu also confessed that their sex life was more active before the birth of two sons.
90 Day Fiance: Kalani Suggests Role Play To Mend Sex Life
Kalani thinks role play might bring more fun and spice to their married life. Therefore, she suggested it to her husband to try it out. ET reports Kalani explaining to Asuelu, “It’s like dressing up as different people.” Kalani then went on with some fun suggestions like secretary and boss, the mature lady on vacation, or something where Asuelu could be a kayak boy. Kalani definitely wants to explore more. She wants her husband to fun up the sex life with sex toys and other kinds of stuff.
Sex is obviously an important part of a relationship. And, let’s not find it weird to talk. Sex strengthens the bond and makes the relationship work for the long term. Kalani also wants Asuelu to understand that they have to try new things in their marriage so as to make each other happy. The couple needs to do things to make each other feel loved again.
90 Day Fiance: Conversation Turns To Outburst
It seems Asuelu and Kalani can not have a conversation without any fight in it. The conversation between Kalani and Asuelu has been playful until now. However, Asuelu soon burst out when Kalani brought her brother into the conversation. Asuelu made Kalani realize that he does good things for her, like bringing pizza. To this, Kalani instantly replied that her brother even does the same. And that was it. Asuelu has a personality who is hesitant and pissed all the time. And the word ‘brother’ switched on the angry side of Asuelu. It isn’t very pleasant for Asuelu to always see Kalani’s family come in between of their relationship. He then stated, “you need to work on how you can talk to me.”
Kalani got hurt by Asuelu’s words and started crying. Instead of making up to her wife, he stated that it was no point for her to cry. Well, it’s obviously Kalani’s wish as to what she wants to do and what not. Kalani confessed, “I feel like I yet again fooled myself into thinking that this marriage was on the right track and that Asuelu was finally gonna change.”
If the clashes continue, Kalani will have to think about her future. She would not buy a house together with Asuelu in such a condition. Does that mean she might also end up having a divorce? Yes, definitely. Kalani also made it clear that she doesn’t see any future with Asuelu. What do you think will happen ahead? Let us know in the comments below.