90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days; Akinyi is facing one of the most massive challenges of life. This is something most people in a relationship with a single parent face. They have great chemistry with their partner, and everything is a fairytale. But things change when there is a child involved. Not everyone is ready to be a parent to someone else’s child. Moreover, when the distance is a major factor, things can become a lot more complicated.
Akinyi Addresses Fans’ Concerns About Her Being a Step Mom
Akinyi once stated that she doesn’t want to be a stepmom on the show. Since that episode, 90 Day Fiance fans have been bashing her for being heartless towards a child. She recently took to Instagram to simplify what she thinks and explains her point. Being a stepmother and questions related to it keep popping in her QnA section. So, instead of answering in bits, she has decided to give a lengthy answer once and for all in an Instagram post.
Akinyi wonders what’s the issue in being scared about being a stepmom. She has never had any children, nor she had to raise one. Moreover, Akinyi is not ready to have kids of her own. As for Benjamin’s son, she wants to start from something as simple as friendship. She needs to form some kind of bond with the child before she starts performing motherly duties for Ben’s son. Akinyi thinks of friendship as the most reasonable bond. Akinyi also asks for advice from step-parents. She says that if there is something wrong with her ways, people can educate her.
90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days; What Are Fans Saying On Akinyi’s Opinions?
Most fans are praising Akinyi for her wise words and choices. Users are telling her that friendship is indeed the best way to enter into the life of a little one. She said that there is nothing wrong with being scared about it. The user’s advice for Akinyi is to bond with the child, get to know him and then figure out her own way of being a parent.
Akinyi is honest about how she feels and that resonates with a lot of 90 Day Fiance fans. One user appreciates her honesty. Most people who are not ready to become stepparents jump into it. Even if they don’t care about the child. However, one user did point out that Akinyi said that she doesn’t want to become a stepmom. We can say that she might have blurted it out of fear.
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